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Male and Female Delusion Calculator

Reality Check Calculator (Delusion Calculator)
— Estimate Your Match Percentage

It is possible to use this reality check calculator (also known as the delusion calculator) to determine the percentage of people in your vicinity who match your preferences in terms of age, height, income, education, and relationship type. By using adjustable assumptions and a clear breakdown of results, you can quickly figure out how common or rare your standards are.

Pick your criteria → see an estimated match rate (demo model) and check delusion calculator.

175 cm
Tip: Use cm (recommended). You can change the range if needed.
This uses a demo income distribution (editable below).
Advanced assumptions (demo model — customize)
Height distribution (Normal)
These change when you switch Men/Women.
Income distribution (Lognormal-ish)
Higher sigma = more inequality. Replace with your research.
Status probabilities
These are demo defaults.
Education probabilities
Age is modeled as Normal between 18–80 (demo).
Rarity
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Confidence
Demo model
Breakdown
Age—
Height—
Income—
Education—
Single—
No kids—
Note: This is a “rarity estimator” based on your assumptions. Replace defaults with real data if you want accuracy.
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